Being in a daisy chain of focus has to be one of the worst feelings in the world. Most of us are in one without really noticing it.
For instance when I worked at the mall I enjoyed the company of a co-worker, I wanted to take the relationship further. She on the other hand was interested in one of my good friends. Who in turn was interested in his boss, who in turn was sleeping with his best friend.
Why do we get in these situations?
With these daisy chains we are losing out on a lot of things, at least from my point of view. You put so much effort forth for someone else you end up coming home with nothing left for anyone else, let alone yourself. I mean perfectly good people are right in front of us trying their hardest to make us happy yet we are looking far past them and their feelings for our selfish reasons.
Continuing on...
I think a lot of us are victims of our own masochistic desires. In most situations the friend zone NEVER turns into a loving lasting relationship. But we still push forward on that one spec of hope, wishes, or really cheesey dreams.
I really hope at some point we all wake up and stop chasing relationships.
Guys gimme some feedback on this one.
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Why do we reduce the beauty of relating to relationship? Why are we in such a hurry? Because to relate is insecure, and relationship is a security. Relationship has a certainty; relating is just a meeting of two strangers, maybe just an overnight stay and in the morning we say goodbye. Who knows what is going to happen tomorrow? And we are so afraid that we want to make it certain, we want to make it predictable. We would like tomorrow to be according to our ideas; we don't allow it freedom to have its own say. So we immediately reduce every verb to a noun.
The moment love becomes attachment, love becomes a relationship... the moment love becomes demanding, it is a prison. It has destroyed the freedom; you cannot fly in the sky, you are encaged.
-Osho
I sit in my cage
Singing sadly, but softly
The door is unlocked
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